Join other couples who have all sorts of questions about the kind of life and home they will create. Discuss your ideas with others in a supportive, caring and nonjudgmental environment. The first discussion topic is "Eliminating the Extremes of Christians vs Jews and Us vs Them." Additional topics include how to raise children to respect diversity and how to avoid being judgmental, jealous, ignorant or defensive when challenged. RSVP to Lauren Trexler at 360-896-8088 or email lauren@jewishvancouverusa.com. Kol Ami Learning Center, 1006-B NE 146th St., Vancouver.